Relationship Desk, Delhi Magazine: The questions you ask during your first meeting with someone define the future of the relationship. It is at this stage that the couple has the opportunity to get to know each other’s tastes and, of course, understand whether or not the two are compatible. And, according to a therapist, quoted in Metro, a British newspaper, there are five almost mandatory questions in this context.
Questions that are (almost) mandatory during the first date:
What is your biggest passion?
“This question helps you understand the other person’s priorities, interests and what really excites them”;
Who is the most influential person in your life? Why?
“This question can reveal your values, as well as the type of people you admire”;
What book, film or television program has had the most impact on your life?
“This can help you understand their tastes in entertainment and the types of stories that interest them”;
What is your favorite childhood memory?
“This can provide information about your upbringing, family dynamics and experiences that shape you”;
Do you have any unusual or peculiar habits?
“This can give you an idea of your personality and help you discover the unique traits that make you the person you are.”
Here are some essential questions that can help facilitate meaningful conversation on a first date:
- What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
- Are there any hobbies or interests you’re particularly passionate about?
- What kind of books, movies, or music do you like?
- Do you have any favorite travel destinations or places you’d like to visit?
- Are there any goals or aspirations you’re currently working towards?
- How do you like to spend your weekends or downtime?
- What’s your idea of a perfect day or evening?
- Are there any foods or cuisines you really enjoy?
- What do you value most in a friendship or relationship?
- Have you had any memorable or significant life experiences that shaped who you are today?
Remember, these questions are just conversation starters. The most important thing is to be genuinely interested in the other person’s responses and to listen actively. This will help create a more enjoyable and engaging first date experience for both parties.